Sainted Irish Mother Update

Mom’s condition deteriorated rapidly last night, she has Covid-Pneumonia which she caught at the rehab hospital.

I spoke to her yesterday and she seemed so much her old self after a couple of tough days that today’s developments came as a shock.

She was struggling to breathe and her oxygen levels had dropped very low by normal standards so it was decided to transfer her to the Covid ward at Toronto Western.

Mom is 96 and suffers congestive heart failure. Given her frail state she is not considered a ventilator candidate. The risks of intubation are high I am told by the doctors and the reward may only amount to a delay of the inevitable. Ventilators are reserved primarily for younger patients who may stand a better chance of recovery I was informed.

She has been on a steroid treatment since the initial diagnosis at Runnymede. They have now given her diuretics’ to manage the fluid in her lungs and are giving her oxygen at the highest rate possible. Delivery is via a mask for now but a more efficient means is available if needed. Blood test results will indicate if other treatments, some described as “experimental” are suitable.

Mom is awake and she is able to converse with the staff.

She’s holding her own but the next 24 to 48 hours are critical.

I am not allowed to visit but a phone call may be arranged later.

Say a prayer and thanks for your concern.

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Leaving home…

Leaving home…

Kathy will be entering the hospice this morning.

They will manage her symptoms better than I am able to do at home, especially now that the physical toll has become pronounced.

I wish with all my heart it wasn’t so but the Doctor says it is time and so does Kath.

I can visit of course, even sleep over but I still resent having to let her go for reasons human and legitimate and others that are selfishly petty.

We were expecting up to 2 weeks before a bed opened up, instead we got a call the same day the Doctor gave his approval.

For the best of course, but too soon.

It is a long heartbreak with many sad goodbyes like mileposts marking the way.

Please keep Kathy in your prayers.

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Christmas in a Dark Time

Meaning and meaninglessness, and a year of trials

Scrooge will still send the goose around to the Cratchits, but the boy who delivers it will be wearing a mask. I imagine the nephew has called off his party, so that Uncle Ebenezer will not perform his usual Dickensian frolic (the geezer’s dance of grace and redemption). Instead, he will make the best of a bad time, sitting alone in the cold house and waving at his relatives through the Zoom lens.

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Buddy and us

Buddy and us

Buddy keeps on growing and getting into mischief. He chewed the cord for our land line clean through nearly. He’ll eat anything.

Please keep Kathy in your thoughts today, things have been tough of late but we are still fighting.

We are on our way to the hospital now where she will have a brief stay until they sort things out.

Nightmouse will keep the home fires burning until my return.

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