Should I tell my fiancée that I’m bisexual and had sex with her dad?

I have been in love for the last year and recently proposed.

After 10 years of bisexuality (though I had more female partners than male) I was happy, excited and in love.

She introduced me to her parents three months ago and her father and I recognised each other from a local cruising site.

We have been intimate on about three or four occasions.

He has made contact with me and asked me to tell my fiancée about my sexuality.

I asked if his wife knew about his, and we have reached something of an impasse.

He has since taken screenshots of old photos of me and I have also found some of him.

Shall I just walk away from the woman of my dreams?…

  • Dana Garcia

    This sounds like one of those fake letters to Ann Landers.

    • David

      But,but,but… it says the Guardian and then underneath it says “winner of the pulitzer prize”

    • WalterBannon

      This sounds like a typical liberal family. He should just ask Justin Trudeau how he handled this dilemma

  • Clink9

    It got weird didn’t it?

    • Frau Katze

      Good pic.

  • Ghost of Ed

    Tortn between two lovers, breaking all the rules…
    ta da da da da da

    • Observer

      And she still didn’t admit the relationship with her partner’s dog.

  • barryjr

    I think the writer should talk to the Ontario Liberals for a job.

  • Drunk_by_Noon

    The women in that family sure have lousy taste in men.

  • Norman_In_New_York

    Calling Dr. Ruth!

  • winniec

    You can get a billion more girlfriends, but you only have one mom and one dad.
    This boy should tell her that he’s backing out because marriage is the joining of two families and he can’t see eye to eye with her father…and that won’t change. A lifetime of conflict wouldn’t be good for her. Sorry, honey. G’bye.

  • Ron MacDonald

    Prime example of progressive family values.

  • Xavier

    Why, it’s a 21st Century Romeo and Juliet.

    • Una Salus


  • Uncle_Waspy

    “Shall I just walk away from the girl of my dreams?”
    Who talks like this? Fakeroo.

    • kkruger71

      Sad thing is even in the “right wing” papers like the Sun you are not allowed to question the validity of the advice column letters. A couple times I did so when the subject letters rang hollow and read like an activists dream scenario for a “teachable moment” and had those comments promptly deleted by the mods. Not even nasty or anything, just questioning if the scenarios written were true.

      • simus1

        Truth and writers for newspapers are like distant cousins who rarely attend family reunions the same year.

  • DMB

    Next on the Jerry Springer show!

  • Brett_McS

    Definitely not. I can see potential in this relationship going forward: What’s the mother like? Nice?

  • DD_Austin

    A natural for politics

  • moraywatson

    As Hillary would say, “At this point, what difference does it make?”

  • Minicapt

    No one suggests a “Family Affair”?


  • warrenzoell

    This is perfectly acceptable behavior, and by god you’d better accept it or else!

  • Lawer

    I think you should kill yourself

  • Lawer

    I think I know these people, it’s the fuck family. Everyone fucks each other including the family dog,cat… basically anything that moves in the